Logo

How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 02:07

How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What does it mean when someone tells you they love you and want you in their life, but doesn't want to commit?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Do women lack the mental strength to succeed at STEM? There seems to be few women at STEM and more women leave STEM after a time of working at it. How can it be just sexism if women aren't banned from entering?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why is fitness important?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Do you have any opinion on Japanese writer/actor Yukio Mishima?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What is the most sentimental item you inherited from someone dear to you and what does it mean to you?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Pokémon GO Hyper Training Guide: Max IVs with Gold Bottle Caps from the Ancients Recovered Event - Pokémon GO Hub

What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

That's it for today.

What is love?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hangs out with loser friends.

What are women's true thoughts and feelings on bestiality?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why did the massacre of al-Dawayima Palestinian residents not have the same reverberations as the Deir Yasin massacre?

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What was your worst experience while living with roommates?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In the New Testament, Christ quotes the Ethiopian book of Enoch. How do the Sola Scriptura folks square this circle?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Do you as a gay male enjoy the feeling of getting a penis in your anus?

Does not procrastinate.

Ask yourself:

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why was Cars 2 so bad?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Defense Department signs OpenAI for $200 million 'frontier AI' pilot project - theregister.com

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.